The theme in close personal relationships is asking the right questions. This would be after you manage your own feelings. Anxiety, for example. You'll be stronger. Dogs can follow the same advice. Ask a question and start a conversation if looking for romance. Talk relaxes people enough to share thoughts and feelings. You're in the loop professionally, so pay attention and glean useful bits of information in the 30 days following the New Moon. Out of the loop, gossip works its way up the ladder and the powers that be don't want to hear it. Mum's the word on what you hear.